Karachi city, the country’s financial hub, is going to be considered as the modern dating city of Pakistan in near future.
Recently two different incidents took place in the city that were not only amazing but also amusing and could be danger for couples’ lives as well as for public.
A relative of mine told me that while he was on way home on his motorbike he saw a strange incident that he could not believe on his eyes for a moment. A car was slowly running along the road in front of his motorbike that he unintentionally looked at. He saw a couple inside busy in smooching unaware of the surroundings. Even they felt no danger of a possible road accident.
He found the same incident other day but the scene was totally different as a young couple was doing objectionable activities in a rickshaw as many of the three-wheelers have doors these days in Karachi. It can be said that more opportunities were being provided to young couples for dating in the form transport. Even the couple was not hesitating in front of the driver who could have easily observed them in the back mirror.
Since the media is free, it has started spreading immoral activities that have dominated youngsters’ minds and they are trying to adopt the same activities. Perhaps, the modern dating can be the reaction of various programs that are aired these days on various TV channels in which famous anchors or hosts are raiding dating places in Karachi so that their deeds can be exposed and stemmed.
In this regard, not only parents need to keep eyes on their children what they are watching on television or internet but also the government should filter adult content available on the internet and ban all immoral, porn sites as the youngsters are adopting sexuality and immoral activities.
Also they do not care of their lives and can cause harm to themselves and others.
a major reason for these kind of activities may be late marriages.. as our society has imposed norms of expensive gold, walima and bari irrespective of the economic condition of the person.
ya i really Agree with you @8c6c9221597c9385d49a069c30ec3eca:disqus thats the bigest reason that now days parents cant efford or may be some other reason that . they cant marry early there children special girls so theses things gone happend …………….but our Gov is sleeping…………………………………
this is ridiculous…its called hormones. completely normal and healthy part of growing up. the only thing pakistan needs to worry about is poor people having kids when they can’t afford food and shelter for even themselves. this is the sad thing
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agreed… people does not have any moral values
Mr.Sohail me 100% agree with you.Late marriage is really a big problem
now a days.Sex is a Human need and if on exact age(adult age) there is
no Nikah so many male & female do these kind of things after a lot
patience,I interviewed many couples on dates they mention that we waited
a lot watching the faces of parents that now they will think of our
Nikah but Gold,Furniture,and expensive ceremonies did not allow their
parent to do so.So why every time we blaim on Government ,Its the fault
of our Society,if a neighbor celebrated his marriage event fully and
spend 20 Lacks ,so why the same street people try to do the same and
mostly try to overcome and try to spend more than 20 Lacks.Nikkah and
Marriage are not different.The Conclusion of this Blog in my point of
view is Simple Nikkah and Rukhsati, Because if just for a big wish of
celebrating fully the Nikkah get late and late and during this the
engaged persons or hopefully dreaming of husband and wife persons cannot
stop themselves to do the activities in Rickshaw or Cars etc.Dear readers Plz think Positive Hope you can understand.
Yousuf name ka aik jaali aamil ilaj k name par girls ko apni hawis ka nishana bana raha hai plz help plzz… his name yousuf from Malir 15 rafah-e-aam n his number 0300-2772085
yes sohail its true, thats just because of family maters and late marriages. I read this blog and it really touches my heart because i am also one of them. Actually this is because parents not alow their daughters to get marry with the person whom they like and vice versa. And its not just the need of men, its need for woman too. because its a natural thing. Therefore its mentioned in Quran that marry daughter as her Menstrual cycle starts. And because of this media and diff movies, our youth is going towards these activities.its not just matter of nikkah and social marriage ceremony its the matter of attachment.